Friday, September 12, 2008

Afraid of change?


I have read about how comun it could be to be afraid of change. Change could happen in different aspects of our lifes and because is something new of which you didnt have the control , you might feel insure and if you are like me .. " we hate to feel insecure" and " not have the control of our feelings and emotions"
What to do when you are afraid of change?
1.- Search the environment: Try to find all (even small detailss) the information need for the change, things that you will need to apply in your new role or new life =), people who is going to be your new angels in this adventure, books, magazines, everything that could help you to feel more confortable in the change.
2.- Talk to yourself/Prepare yourself for the change: Tell yourself what you feel , your expectetations, your goals . Also dont forget to tell yourself how much you have done by yourself and admire yourself. Its important to remind yourself how much value you have in this life ... I know i do and you are important in this life too
3.-Be ready: When you understand yourself, you can prepare yourself for be ready for the change.
Its not easy but you can do it!

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